Proshka, or the Day of Forgiveness, is an important religious holiday in the Eastern Orthodox Church, celebrated on the last Sunday before the beginning of Lent. On this day, friends and relatives request and receive forgiveness from each other for sins committed, either in word or deed, throughout the year. Through the acts of confession and absolution Christians bring to life to what Jesus told his followers: “Forgive, and you will be forgiven” (Luke 6:37). This very old ritual, called shriving, has been attested in writings over 1000 years old.
The ritual begins by approaching someone you have offended and asking for forgiveness for whatever you have said or done to injure them, usually using the ritual phrase, “Please forgive me…” They respond with the phrase, “It is forgiven.” This is repeated three times. After extending forgiveness verbally, humility and respect are demonstrated physically by kissing the hand of the offended party and pressing it against your forehead. This is also repeated three times.
This tradition is regularly practiced among family and close friends. Usually the younger ask forgiveness from their elders, and are also asked to forgive in place of their parents, relatives, or others who are not present. Children like this tradition because they often find a coin in the hand of the adults.
Macedonians also celebrate this day with carnivals and other festivities, including parades, bonfires and gatherings. Don’t miss the opportunity to share in this important cultural event.
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